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Samuel's purpose is ostensibly pure: He's off to marry his intended, the gal of his dreams, Penelope Mia Wasikowska. She's "precious like a flower," he sighs to his hired hand, Henry David Zellner , a parson he's brought along to officiate the union. She's good at "thinkin', cookin', sewin' What more could you ask for?

The second minor hiccup: Penelope isn't Samuel's fiancée. Never was, never will be. She's in love with Anton.

They live in idyll on a secluded farmstead in the woods — that is, until Samuel arrives and ruins everything. It's Henry, not Samuel, who winds up killing Anton, accidentally firing his rifle and blowing the man's head off in the middle of his morning micturition. This is not a coincidence: Henry is a meek man, far removed from traditional Western figures capable of unearthing hidden grit and bravery when circumstances demand.

That he ultimately kills the so-called villain — and by mistake — instead of Samuel, who's supposed to be our savior, is a deliberate tip of the hand by the Zellners. Samuel is responsible, however, for setting the whole ordeal in motion by playacting the hero.

But by the time we leave the farmstead, it's clear he's nothing but a deluded brute. This all probably sounds horrific on the page, but it's hilarious in motion. The scene proceeds like a violent Looney Tunes bit, defining its characters through appalling incompetence. Anton's mid-stream execution isn't funny, per se — he's simply not the villain Samuel makes him out to be — but the Rube Goldberg-style mechanics of his death are fundamentally absurd, from Henry's boot-shaking terror at the prospect of shooting a man in cold blood to the unintended squeeze of his trigger finger.

Morally, we shouldn't laugh, but it's impossible not to chuckle at the sheer ineptitude and foolish tragedy of what unfolds. From this carnage, we learn that Penelope never loved Samuel.

She then destroys the cabin she shared with Anton and outfits Henry with a vest composed of leftover explosives. He'd rather not wear it, unsurprisingly, but as Penelope's holding a rifle he doesn't have choice.

JavaScript is required to view this site. Log in Sign up. Most recent Most popular Most recent. Filter by post type All posts. Statements I have that helped me speaking from my own experience conclude that I was experiencing compulsory heterosexuality and not genuine attraction to men that might resonate with you: I like getting attention from men and being validated in my attractiveness, but the moment it goes from attention to an interaction i.

I pick one or more conventionally attractive men in the room, and try to force myself to be attracted to them. I like the idea of being with a man, but any time a man makes a move on me I get incredibly uncomfortable.

These reasons are sometimes reasonable, but often insignificant i. I can fantasize about men and find men attractive, but thinking about realistically being with a man makes my stomach churn.

The guys I like always seem to be incredibly feminine or gay. This never happened to me specifically, but it has happened to many friends. A form of entertainment in which the damsel-in-distress emerged as a stereotype at this time was stage magic. Restraining attractive female assistants and imperiling them with blades and spikes became a staple of 20th century magicians' acts.

Noted illusion designer and historian Jim Steinmeyer identifies the beginning of this phenomenon as coinciding with the introduction of the " sawing a woman in half " illusion. In magician P. Selbit became the first to present such an act to the public. Since the days of Robert-Houdin , both men and women were used as the subjects for magic illusions". However, changes in fashion and great social upheavals during the first decades of the 20th century made Selbit's choice of "victim" both practical and popular.

The trauma of war had helped to desensitise the public to violence and the emancipation of women had changed attitudes to them. Audiences were tiring of older, more genteel forms of magic. It took something shocking, such as the horrific productions of the Grand Guignol theatre, to cause a sensation in this age.

The damsel-in-distress continued as a mainstay of the comics, film, and television industries throughout the 20th century. Imperiled heroines in need of rescue were a frequent occurrence in black-and-white film serials made by studios such as Columbia Pictures , Mascot Pictures , Republic Pictures , and Universal Studios , and in the s, 40s and early 50s.

These serials sometimes drew inspiration for their characters and plots from adventure novels and comic books. Notable examples include the character Nyoka the Jungle Girl , whom Edgar Rice Burroughs created for comic books and who was later adapted into a serial heroine in Republic productions such as Perils of Nyoka Additional classic damsels in that mold were Jane Porter , in both the novel and movie versions of Tarzan , and Ann Darrow, as played by Fay Wray in the movie King Kong , in one of the most iconic instances.

The notorious hoax documentary Ingagi also featured this idea, and Wray's role was repeated by Jessica Lange and Naomi Watts in remakes. As journalist Andrew Erish has noted: Frequently cited examples of a damsel in distress in comics include Lois Lane , who was eternally getting into trouble and needing to be rescued by Superman , and Olive Oyl , who was in a near-constant state of kidnap , requiring her to be saved by Popeye.

Damsels in distress have been cited as an example of differential treatment of genders in literature, film, and works of art. Feminist criticism of art, film , and literature has often examined gender-oriented characterisation and plot, including the common "damsel in distress" trope, as perpetrating regressive and patronizing myths about women. While late twentieth-century feminist criticism may have highlighted alternatives to the damsel stereotype, the origins of some alternatives are to be found elsewhere.

Joseph Campbell 's work on comparative mythology has provided a theoretical model for heroes throughout the history of literature, drama, and film, which has been further developed by dramaturgical writers such as Christopher Vogler.

These theories suggest that within the underlying story arc of every hero is found an episode known as the ordeal , where the character is almost destroyed. By surviving fear, danger, or torture the hero proves he or she has special qualities and ultimately emerges re-invented to progress to ultimate victory. Within this theory the empowered "damsel" can be a female hero rendered powerless and imperilled during her heroic ordeal but who ultimately emerges as a strong figure who claims victory; yet the male and female versions of such ordeal and empowerment still differ at a fundamental level, in that when there is a character doing the rescuing sometimes referred to as "help unlooked for" , he is almost invariably male.

Examples can be found in films that date back to the early days of movie making. One of the films most often associated with the stereotype of the damsel in distress, The Perils of Pauline , in fact provides at least a partial counterexample, in that Pauline, as played by Pearl White , is a strong character who decides against early marriage in favour of seeking adventure and becoming an author.

Despite common belief, the film does not feature scenes with Pauline tied to a railroad track and threatened by a buzzsaw, although such scenes were incorporated into later re-creations and were also featured in other films made in the period around Academic Ben Singer has contested the idea that these "serial-queen melodramas" were male fantasies and has observed that they were marketed heavily at women.

Empowered damsels were a feature of the serials made in the s and s by studios such as Republic Pictures. The "cliffhanger" scenes at the end of episodes provide many examples of female heroines bound and helpless and facing fiendish death traps. But those heroines, as played by actresses such as Linda Stirling and Kay Aldridge , were often strong, assertive women who ultimately played an active part in vanquishing the villains.

Moore 's story " Shambleau " — generally acknowledged as epoch-making in the history of science fiction — begins in what seems a classical damsel in distress situation: Soon, Smith himself needs rescuing and barely escapes with his life. These themes have received successive updates in modern-era characters, ranging from 'spy girls' of the s to current movie and television heroines.

No 's dragon tank. The damsel in distress theme is also very prominent in The Spy Who Loved Me , where the story is told in the first person by the young woman Vivienne Michel , who is threatened with imminent rape by thugs when Bond kills them and claims her as his reward.

The female spy Emma Peel in the s British television series The Avengers was often seen in "damsel in distress" situations. The character and her reactions, as portrayed by actress Diana Rigg , differentiated these scenes from other movie and television scenarios where women were similarly imperilled as pure victims or pawns in the plot. A scene with Emma Peel bound and threatened with a death ray in the episode From Venus with Love is a direct parallel to James Bond's confrontation with a laser in the film Goldfinger.

The serial heroines and Emma Peel are cited as providing inspiration for the creators of strong heroines in more recent times. Reflecting these changes, Daphne Blake of the Scooby-Doo cartoon series who throughout the series is captured dozens of times, falls through trap doors, etc. The film Sherlock Holmes includes a classical damsel in distress episode, where Irene Adler played by Rachel McAdams is helplessly bound to a conveyor belt in an industrial slaughterhouse, and is saved from being sawn in half by a chainsaw; yet in other episodes of the same film Adler is strong and assertive — for example, overcoming with contemptuous ease two thugs who sought to rob her and robbing them instead.

In the film's climax it is Adler who saves the British Empire , dismantling at the last moment a device set to poison the entire membership of Parliament.

In the final scene of the Walt Disney Pictures film Enchanted the traditional roles are reversed when male protagonist Robert Patrick Dempsey is captured by Queen Narissa Susan Sarandon in her dragon form.

In a King Kong fashion, she carries him to the top of a New York skyscraper, until Robert's beloved Giselle climbs, sword in hand, to save him. A similar role reversal is evident in Stieg Larsson 's The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo , in whose climatic scene the male protagonist is captured by a mass murderer, locked in an underground torture room, chained, stripped naked, and humiliated when his female partner enters to save him and destroy the villain.

Still another example is Foxglove Summer , part of Ben Aaronovitch 's Rivers of London series - where the protagonist Peter Grant is bound and taken captive by the Queen of the Faeries, and it is Grant's girlfriend who comes to rescue him, riding a Steel Horse. In the film adaptation Frozen , Gerda and Kai are substituted with the sisters Anna and Elsa respectively.

DeviantArt is the world's largest online social community for artists and art enthusiasts, allowing people to connect through the creation and sharing of art. 9. ‘Weakness’ is men’s biggest weakness Image Source. Men like to fix things, solve problems and make the person suffering from that problem, happy! It sounds sweet if we put it that way, but then that is their basic behaviour. They want to feel needed and want to feel strong, and the damsels in distress make them feel exactly like that. You can find H/C or whumpy scenes from various tv shows or movies in this tumblr. Suggestions are welcomed. Behold, there can be spoilers=).